On men, you can use a finger vibe to press against his Perineum (the part between his anus and testicles) while stroking his shaft. If you squeeze the base of his penis to push blood to the head once he is hard it will make the head even more sensitive. Then you can lightly tease with your finger tips, tongue and even the vibe around the head especially the Frenulum (the part that makes a V shape on the bottom). If he is open to it, you can also add a little stimulation to his anus as well.
For women, you can take a finger vibe and move around the clitoris while you use your fingers to stimulate the gspot or vice versa. If she is open to it, you can also add a little stimulation to her anus as well.
Using a vibe allows you to combine your hands with the speed and power of a motor which is like icing on a cake!
See recommended Finger Vibrators for this wonderful sexual play.
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licking slowly and then increase speed.
stimulation - use a finger or vibrator to stimulate her
clitoris while you lick her labia or finger her gspot while you
lick and suck on her clitoris. You can even finger her anus,
but if you do, remember not to bring that finger back to her
vaginal area so that you do not expose her vagina or your mouth
to harmful bacteria.
heat of your breath to your advantage. Part of what makes oral
sex so intimate for a woman is knowing that your mouth is
warming her. You can use a warming lubricant for added
use a flavored lubricant, use one that does not have glycerin
or sugar as they can contribute to yeast infections. The one we
most recommend is the System Jo
Flavored Lubricant line. It tastes the best of all
the flavored lubricants we have tried, it has healthy
ingredients that will not cause health problems and it is not
sticky like many of the others.
often very self conscious about the vagina, so make sure to
tell her how much you love her lovely vulva and show enthusiasm
while doing it. Allow yourself to become ravenous for her and
she will enjoy it even more. Attitude during sex is key to
heightening desire and passion.
- Penetrate her with your tongue. Just because you will not reach her gspot, don’t think that it is not pleasurable to have your tongue thrusting in and out of the vagina opening. There are rich nerve endings there and it feels wonderful!
To make sure that the anal
sex toy or
prostate massager that you use is safe, make sure
that it has a wide, flared base, ring or handle that will keep
it from moving too far up your anus and into your
Beginners should always start with smaller anal sex toys and work upward. Starting out with a very large anal sex toy can cause damage to the anal tissue and if inserted far enough can even cause tearing of the intestines.
By starting off with a smaller anal sex toy, you allow the anus to stretch and to accommodate larger toys gradually. If your lover has a large penis, you should also consider starting off with a small, then medium anal sex toy before you explore anal sex to avoid trauma to the anus, anal canal and intestines.
ALWAYS use lubricant;
waterbased lubes are best as they will not
breakdown condoms or sex
If the sex toy you are using is not
silicone, glass or made from another non-porous material, you
should cover the sex toy with a
condom or else harmful bacteria can easily
linger on your anal sex toy even after cleaning.
- Always make sure that if you have anal sex play and then have vaginal sex play that you clean the sex toy and disinfect it to make sure you do not inadvertently give her a Urinary Tract Infection by spreading unwanted bacteria to her vaginal area.
One of my favorite things to do when performing fellatio on my husband is to gently tap on his anus. No pushing the finger inside, just a gentle tapping. I can feel him pucker when my finger hits the skin. It’s a little thing that just drives him wild. I also will use a little lubricant and slowly massage his anus. Going in small circles and applying pressure but not pushing my finger in will guarantee that he doesn’t last too long and give me a sore jaw.
Another thing to do is to use a good tasting edible lubricant. If you are not one who enjoys this but does it to please your lover it will make it a little more enjoyable for both of you. Also if you do not want to swallow remember that men are visual creatures and will love to see their semen splash your face or breasts. You could also let him cum in your mouth but let it dribble out. Most men will have no problem with this. Does anyone have any suggestions that I have left out?