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Jun 18th

Loss of Desire in a Relationship: Keeping the Spark

By Holistic Wisdom
It is completely normal to lose the initial spark after you have been with a partner for a while. Below is an article that will explore how you can "keep the Spark."

Loss of Sexual Desire Article
Jun 18th

Best Sex Toy of the Day: Silicone Lovers Arouser

By Holistic Wisdom
Vibrating CockringThis vibrating ring has been a long time favorite of both our staff and our customers. The most common mistake that people make when looking at it is that they think that the bunny goes at the end of the penis, when it actually slides on so that the bunny is at the base of the penis with the ears ready to stimulate her clitoris. So in the picture to the left, the head of the penis would come out of the left side.

There is a reason that many clitoral stimulators have those little ears at the ends. They both come around the sides of the clitoris and provide incredible stimulation. In addition, the material that the bunnies are made of send a type of vibration down them that is simply magical when it comes to sexual stimulation.

This vibrating cockring is beyond expectation and really delivers not only clitoral with a little bit of lower labia and anus stimulation, but it also makes him feel thicker. All this while allowing the head of the penis (the most sensitive part) to still receive all the stimulation of penetration makes it great for both partners.

It has removable waterproof bullets and we made sure to include one of the strongest ones for free with purchase of one. It really is one of the best couples sex toys on the market for using during sexual intercourse.


Learn more and purchase the Silicone Lovers Arouser
Jun 16th

Christianity & Porn

By Holistic Wisdom
Lisa LawlessWhen a minister who was writing a
book about porn contacted our founder
Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D. to ask for her
viewpoint on the debate around Christians
vs. Porn; read what she said in the
article below-


Christian Porn Article
Jun 16th

Best Sex Toy of the Day: The Cone

By Holistic Wisdom

The Cone Vibrator

The Cone vibrator is one of the more unique sex toys on the market as it is something that you can use in a variety  of ways.

 It can be used by men and women, solo or with a partner. With 16 different vibration modes and really powerful stimulation, it is a very popular item with customers.

Learn more or purchase The Cone.

The Cone- Instructions

Jun 15th

Father's Day Special

By Holistic Wisdom
For Father's Day we are offering a free vibrating Love Ring and free shipping with a purchase over $59!

Use Coupon Code- LOVERING

See toys just for him here-
http://www.holisticwisdom.com/sex-toys-for-men.htm


Jun 15th

When is Infidelity Okay?

By Holistic Wisdom
Explore how to approach cheating on your lover and give your own opinion regarding this article-

When is it alright to cheat on a spouse or significant other?
Jun 15th

Best Sex Toy of the Day: The LELO Mona

By Holistic Wisdom
Lelo Mona - Vibrating DildoToday we would like to call your attention to one of the best sex toys on the market for both gspot and anal stimulation. It is a top of the line vibrating dildo made from 100% medical grade silicone and of course is phthalate free. What dazzles most about its performance is that it is able to be gentle as well as powerful and it is rechargeable. Beyond that, it has six modes of stimulation and is angled in such a manner that it will rock your world. It has a one year manufacturers warranty, comes in a beautiful case with storage bag and is one of the hottest selling sex toys we carry.


Learn more & purchase the beautiful
LELO Mona
Jun 15th

Subliminal Flirting with Sexy Words

By Holistic Wisdom
Sexy TongueDesire begins in the mind. Often times subtle, psychological stimulation can send us into a place of sexual longing without even being aware of what it is that made us feel that way. Words are suggestive and can be used to seduce a potential lover. If you pause before you say the word and put a slight emphasis on it the word, it will stand out and become more powerful.

Unless you know the person well and know they do not mind dirty talk, it is best to stay away from using words in regard to its sexual meaning. Rather you can use it in sentences that pertain to something nonsexual.

Below are some words that have sexual innuendos to them and can be used in general conversations for suggestive flirtation-

  • Wet – using this word stimulates the mind by reminding both men and women of a woman’s sexual response to arousal. Example- The wet rain droplets, dripping down you are giving you goose bumps and feel good.
  • Thrusting- Referring to a man thrusting his penis inside his lover. This can be used in some general speech situations where you refer to something like your car thrusting past others or watching a movie where someone was thrusting in and out of something.
  • Squeezing- Referring to a vagina or anus squeezing around a man’s penis. You can use this word in general conversation through mentioning how snug and  tight something was that you had to squeeze inside where it became hot. You can see that it is easy to insert some sexy words into one thought.
  • Lips & Mouth- Using food as a way to seduce has long been a way to turn on the mind. Discussing things like ‘eating’ and how something feels or tastes in your mouth or theirs can be a major turn on. You can also use it in situations with chap stick, lip gloss, etc. where you talk about liking to keep your lips moist.
  • Hard- Referring to a man’s erection from arousal, this word can easily be used in sentences like “You are making it so hard to resist.”
  • Inside- Referring to what it feels like inside a lover, you can emphasize this word with words like soft, warm, wet and pink. For example you could say “Once I was inside it was so warm and inviting with soft lighting, in fact it was so warm I began to get wet from sweating.”
  • Deep- using this word brings to mind the deep penetration that can be attained from hot sex. Describing something that was so deep; you can also use this word to describe feelings. Something that is deeply felt, etc.
  • Dripping- Referring to a woman’s sexual arousal this can be used well with food. Ice cream is sweet and is the perfect example especially if vanilla to represent sexual fluids. Nothing like having dripping white, sweet liquid running down your neck.
  • Come- This obviously is in regard to having an orgasm. Using this in simple sentences such as “It will so exciting when you come over” or “I cannot wait until you come.”
As you can see sexually loaded words can turn innocent conversation into a sexual flirtation quite easily.
Jun 14th

New Remote Control Vibe: Bang Bang

By Holistic Wisdom
Bang Bang VibratorWait 'til they get a load of me is what this little vibe was thinking when it was being made. This is from the new Hustler line that we have been dazzled by as they have some pretty female friendly products. The Bang Bang bullet is different as it is a remote control vibrator which means you have options. Use it from a distance on a lover or just have it tucked in your panties for some discreet play time. With 7 speeds and rotations, quiet operation and being that it is waterproof, this is a really great sex toy.

See & Purchase the New Bang Bang Vibrator

Available through our Fruits of Eden website.
Jun 14th

Sex & Society: Flash Over Substance

By Holistic Wisdom
Take a look at some of the trends affecting sexual health education and how superficial sexuality is winning over substance.

Read Article: Empowered through Sexual Health