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Jan
24th
Valentine's Day Ideas
By Holistic Wisdom
It is through the moments we share not the
gifts we give that make life most rewarding. We as a society can
easily get caught up in status symbols and focus on what our
partner gives us in gifts where there tends to be an exaggerated
importance on the object itself rather than the experiences you
share.
READ MORE -
Valentine's Day Ideas Article
READ MORE -
Valentine's Day Ideas Article
Mar
31st
How to Ask for Better Sex?
By Holistic WisdomWhen you are with a partner, it can be very uncomfortable to bring up sex, let alone make a suggestion for improvement. After all, the last thing you want to do is hurt their feelings.
There are some tips that may make it easier to ask your partner for better sex without insulting them below. See our article-
Mar
24th
Ex Sex: What You Wished Your Ex-Lover Had Known
By Holistic WisdomEveryone has a sexual do and don't list. It is what we want and what we do not desire when it comes to sex. The biggest problem is that sometimes our partner does not have the same list. Read what some of our readers have said about what they wished their ex-lovers had known-
Ex Sex: What You Wished Your Ex-Lover Had Known
Dec
8th
What Keeps A Long Term Relationship Going?
By Holistic Wisdom
Ever wonder what the most important things are
when it comes to keeping a relationship intimate and going strong
for the long-term?
Read our article that reviews core attributes that make a loving relationship go the distance.
Long Term Romance - Keeping Intimacy Going
Read our article that reviews core attributes that make a loving relationship go the distance.
Long Term Romance - Keeping Intimacy Going
Nov
24th
Don't Forget The One You Love This Holiday Season
By Holistic Wisdom
With so much going on in our lives it can be
easy to forget the one you love by taking time out to spend with
them and do something special together. See our article on how to
make this holiday special beyond the norm-
The Holidays-
A Time to Celebrate One Another
The Holidays-
A Time to Celebrate One Another
Nov
11th
The 2 - 4 Year Itch
By Holistic Wisdom
Did you know that there is an actual chemical
high that you experience when you fall in love or are attracted to
someone?
That is why in a new relationship you can stay up all night with your lover and still not feel tired. However, these chemical highs only last for 2 - 4 years and are why there is the term ‘honeymoon period’ when it comes to relationships.
So is every relationship doomed to become boring and unfulfilling after the honeymoon period ends? Not at all; the good news is there are different chemical highs that begin afterward and the potential for a long lasting and fulfilling relationship is most definitely a possibility.
Read more about the 2 – 4 year Itch that couples experience and how to keep things fun and creative long afterward.
That is why in a new relationship you can stay up all night with your lover and still not feel tired. However, these chemical highs only last for 2 - 4 years and are why there is the term ‘honeymoon period’ when it comes to relationships.
So is every relationship doomed to become boring and unfulfilling after the honeymoon period ends? Not at all; the good news is there are different chemical highs that begin afterward and the potential for a long lasting and fulfilling relationship is most definitely a possibility.
Read more about the 2 – 4 year Itch that couples experience and how to keep things fun and creative long afterward.
Jul
13th
Divorce Parties
By Holistic Wisdom
Divorce can be a very painful experience and
some people are making the most of it by having a Divorce
Party.
Some divorce parties are somewhat vengeful with things like graphic cakes depicting their ex-spouse falling to their death off the side of the cake, etc. While there is humor and a release of frustration with such things, we suggest making the divorce party more meaningful and about the positive changes that can be made to one's life when taking on a new direction.
Focusing on anger and revenge does not allow you to grow and change for the better to create a healthier life for yourself. By making a divorce party a positive celebration you can not only benefit from the support of your friends but experience some very meaningful symbolic moments during it.
See more here - Divorce Party Ideas
Some divorce parties are somewhat vengeful with things like graphic cakes depicting their ex-spouse falling to their death off the side of the cake, etc. While there is humor and a release of frustration with such things, we suggest making the divorce party more meaningful and about the positive changes that can be made to one's life when taking on a new direction.
Focusing on anger and revenge does not allow you to grow and change for the better to create a healthier life for yourself. By making a divorce party a positive celebration you can not only benefit from the support of your friends but experience some very meaningful symbolic moments during it.
See more here - Divorce Party Ideas
Jun
18th
Loss of Desire in a Relationship: Keeping the Spark
By Holistic Wisdom
It is
completely normal to lose the initial spark after you have been
with a partner for a while. Below is an article that will explore
how you can "keep the Spark."
Loss of Sexual Desire Article
Loss of Sexual Desire Article
Jun
15th
When is Infidelity Okay?
By Holistic Wisdom
Explore how to approach
cheating on your lover and give your own opinion regarding this
article-
When is it alright to cheat on a spouse or significant other?
When is it alright to cheat on a spouse or significant other?
Jun
8th
Subtle Flirting Tips
By Holistic Wisdom
If you have
ever wanted to flirt with someone, but did not want to make it too
obvious, here are a few ways you can let someone know you are
interested without making them feel uncomfortable.
Make Eye Contact-
Let your eyes meet theirs and hold your look for just a few seconds. When we are attracted to someone our pupil’s (the black center) dilate (open up) and we unconsciously recognize attraction from that very subtle queue. You can look to see if their eyes are showing attraction in return as well.
Mirror Their Body Language-
One of the things we naturally tend to do when we are attracted to someone is to mirror their body language. It is a way to let them know that you understand their emotions in the moment. Of course you will want to be subtle about it, maybe pausing a moment or two after they do it to make it seem more natural can be a good way to go.
Smile-
A genuine smile is something that we feel positive about and giving a smile to someone that you are interested in, definitely lets them know that you are enjoying their presence in the moment.
Draw Attention to Your Lips-
Touching your fingers to your lips or licking them in a subtle way can create a sensuous tone. Do not do it too much or too purposefully or it can look creepy or like you are trying to get something off your lip. Rather, casually run a finger or your tongue across your lips one time just to draw their attention there.
Lingering Touch-
When you do touch them, do it softly and pause before you move away to send a message that you enjoy being close to them. Even a pat on the back or shoulder can be a big signal that you are interested. Do not linger too long, rather, just enough to give them a physical queue that you are interested. Make it a caress rather than a purposeful pat.
Make Eye Contact-
Let your eyes meet theirs and hold your look for just a few seconds. When we are attracted to someone our pupil’s (the black center) dilate (open up) and we unconsciously recognize attraction from that very subtle queue. You can look to see if their eyes are showing attraction in return as well.
Mirror Their Body Language-
One of the things we naturally tend to do when we are attracted to someone is to mirror their body language. It is a way to let them know that you understand their emotions in the moment. Of course you will want to be subtle about it, maybe pausing a moment or two after they do it to make it seem more natural can be a good way to go.
Smile-
A genuine smile is something that we feel positive about and giving a smile to someone that you are interested in, definitely lets them know that you are enjoying their presence in the moment.
Draw Attention to Your Lips-
Touching your fingers to your lips or licking them in a subtle way can create a sensuous tone. Do not do it too much or too purposefully or it can look creepy or like you are trying to get something off your lip. Rather, casually run a finger or your tongue across your lips one time just to draw their attention there.
Lingering Touch-
When you do touch them, do it softly and pause before you move away to send a message that you enjoy being close to them. Even a pat on the back or shoulder can be a big signal that you are interested. Do not linger too long, rather, just enough to give them a physical queue that you are interested. Make it a caress rather than a purposeful pat.
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